Mamazie's News

 Life is really hard  During the pandemic a friend of mine lost her job and she went back to the village that we both came from. We were so close I used to check up on her almost everyday. Each time we spoke I could tell that she's not okay,she was getting less okay by day. I decided to invite her to visit me just for a week just so I can try to cheer her up. Vele she's a mom and I'm not so she came with her child. I understood her home situation. My friend was going through depression. I wanted her to be able to relax and just reconnect with herself so I got her daughter a creche not far from my work place. In the morning I'd wake up,get ready while she prepared her child and I'd drop her off at creche on my way to work and pick her up after work. Also I had a helper coming in three times a week to clean,do laundry and and and. I had to pay a little more because I added two more people and I did it out of love so I didn't mind at all. A few weeks turned into a ...

 Hiii admin please post for me anonymous  Although I will be long but hopefully will get some help... I am a girl who is 28years of Age,  and my boyfriend is 32 years old we started dating in 2015 when I was In tertiary.  Our research was so perfect until 2020 when he engaged me on my birthday party that was in November.  2021 he changed and started going out more with his friends and drinking alcohol and cheating on me. We always wanted to start our own family I was using contraceptives but stopped in 2016 . We always had pregnancy symptoms but still it's was phantom pregnancy.  Fast forward his cheating made him to impregnate a girl younger than me because he thought I'm barren.  Last year he moved to limpopo due to job issues, we were in a long distance relationship that I ended up cheating on him and he found out and we fought almost everyday whereby he also stabbed his niece for a slice of polony and was hospitalized. He always insulted me to a po...

MY PARENTS SACRIFICED MY WOMB FOR MONEY THEN ABANDONED ME These days it's really hard to ask help even when you need it because people have learned the hard way when coming to helping others.  My name is Promiseland Shangarai  and here's my story. I came to South Africa when I was 8 years old. My parents gave birth to me and left me back at home when I was just 7months old. They moved to another country to try and find greener pastures because things were really hard back at home in Zimbabwe. Both my parents are first born children in their homes and you know how that automatically makes them deputy parents. When I was about two years old my mom's mom passed away living me with my grandfather, uncles and aunts. To this day I am told I used to be very close with my grandmother although I can't really recall much. My parents couldn't attend my grandmother's funeral apparently because they didn't have enough money to return home for the funeral but atleast they...

 Please post for me anonymously I'm that lonely boring type of a girl,I love and enjoy my space whether with my kids or alone ,I easly get bored around people ,I don't share with other people eather my mom or someone else about anything in my the only person I was able to talk to was my cousin. But recently everything changed she changed I can't talk to her anymore cz even if I try she won't understand or believe me,she was staying with her boyfriend and I was staying at home with her kids I also have my own 2 kids,so at home I was always the one doing everything like cooking , washing dishes and so on ne so every time when her boyfriend comes he'll find me up and down doing those chores my cousin's kids will be sitting resting everytime they are grown girls they can do everything for themselves but bcz they are lazy well we are all lazy but bcz my kids are still young(6 and 3years) they can't anything for themselves. I their mother have to do everything for...

 Hi Admin please keep me anonymous.. I've been dating a guy from high school which is we are/were now 8 years in a relationship. He always cheated embarrassed me made me a laughing stock to everyone, but I still had hope that one day he'll realize how I love him and need him in my life.💔 Always hoped for the better I never cheated on him there were guys u always wanted to try something with me but I never entertained them cause I knew what I wanted but the guy I saw seeing always been cheating on me I had to cry and beg him not to do so anymore he continously did it anyways. I'm still asking myself why I never left the relationship sooner,but it's probably because he was always begging me making me believe that he really loves me and never wanna lose me. I had a miscarriage in 2022 and he always told me not to tell our parents...he still cheated after that treating me like a crazy person, I wasn't perfect I had my own flaws but u never did things that will turn peo...

 I saw a video of a man crawling on the road like a snake,he moved exactly like a snake and he reminded me so much of my late uncle. I wish people could understand and take this sithwalo thing very serious because the consequences are vile and they mostly affect people close to them than their selves. My uncle lived many years in Tembisa and he still had nothing to show for it. He would come home every Easter holidays and still it wouldn't show that he had been gone the whole year on his job. He would be begging even his 6 year old nephews and nieces for patty change just so he can buy cigarettes. He had a lot of anger in him and most times when he got drunk he would literally start accusing the entire family of how much they look down to him because his things are not coming together and what nots. Then as usual January he left for his Tembisa this time he didn't come home for about three years. One day he suddenly just returned and his return was very different. He came durin...

 I USE SNAILS IN MY PRIVATE PART TO ATTRACT RICH MEN I would like to please share my experience anonymously so. I am a woman in my early thirties and I am Malawian born and bred.  I come from a family that isn't poor but doing fair financially. By that I mean we would never go to bed on a hungry stomach or even spend the whole day worrying about the next meal. My father was a teacher and my mom was a street vendor who sold fruits and vegetables at the market. So my life was okay. The problem started when I passed and moved to South Africa. In South Africa that's where I went to live with my aunt who worked as a domestic worker. We lived together in a shared flat in Sunnyside. The flat had only 3 bedroom but we used boards to make the living room a bedroom aswell and that is where we slept. The truth is the flat was over crowded and it made it almost impossible to feel at home. Most people who lived there were not South Africans,including ourselves. I was registered at a colleg...